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Rose Fabia: Volunteer for America

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Rose Fabia: Volunteer for America

2022-10-21T14:34:24-05:00
Photo of Rose Fabia
Problem Addressed Voting Rights
Solution Actively supports the election of Democratic candidates to counter the rise of authoritarianism in the Republican Party
Location Arlington, VA
Impact Local, state, national

What she did

In 2019, Rose Fabia retired from her position as senior policy advisor to the CFO at the Department of Veterans Affairs. Concerned about the authoritarian direction of the country under Republican leadership, she has since immersed herself in local and regional politics. In a relatively short time, she has fostered greater collaboration among like-minded grassroots organizations and become a valued information resource for those who need someone with an ear to the ground. More importantly, she remains a committed and persistent canvasser who reminds forgotten and disillusioned voters why their vote is needed. She is also able to get past the anger of some voters so they at least consider a different perspective.

Why her?

Rose Fabia is a Democratic partisan. As a nonpartisan resource focused on problem solving, our decision to profile her warrants an explanation.

In our last Update, we pointed out that the threats to our democracy had pushed us beyond the red-blue narrative that has kept the nation increasingly divided over the last three decades. Our observation was based, in part, on the public statements by many prominent Republicans and former Republicans who, despite their conservative values, had determined that their votes were best cast for Democrats. These Republicans’ concern for the authoritarian strain that has infected and consumed their party overrode their partisan sentiments in favor of candidates who continue to support democratic principles.

Given these Republicans’ views and the many fronts in the assault on our democracy, it seemed reasonable to go ahead with this profile. To defend the nation against the current threat, voting for the one major political party that still supports American democracy may be the most immediate winning strategy despite clear policy differences among voters.

As a natural leader on the ground in Virginia and on the phones to voters in other states, Fabia is a model for the thousands of citizens around the country committed to the democratic process of electing who represents us in government.

Her story

Fabia’s story is really the stories of the connections she makes, whether it’s coordinating the work of Arlington Democrats with Indivisible and other grassroots groups, gaining the trust of the disillusioned or angry voters whose doors she knocks on, supporting campaigns in other states like Pennsylvania, or fielding responses to her steady stream of political posts on Facebook. It’s not about her service as (former) chair of Beyond Arlington or as an advisor to We of Action Virginia.

It’s her exchanging calendars with folks at 31st Street Swing Left, a grassroots organization in the DC-Maryland-Virginia region formed in the aftermath of the 2016 election that Fabia says is one of the largest and best organized groups around.

It’s her coordinating volunteers for five campaigns during Virginia’s 2021 election cycle, including the campaigns of Dan Helmer, Brianna Sewell, Wendy Gooditis, Joshua Cole, and Paul Siker.

And it’s her taking a call recently from the office of Delegate Dan Helmer (D-Fairfax), who won his re-election campaign last year, because his people needed some information. In this particular instance, they were looking for an opportunity to get Helmer involved in support of Elaine Luria or Abigail Spanberger, US representatives from Virginia’s second and seventh congressional districts, respectively, who are seeking re-election. Knowing that Helmer is a West Point graduate who served multiple tours of duty and knowing where Beyond Arlington was planning to send its volunteers, she was able to suggest a perfect fit: A weekend event late in September for Luria sponsored by Veterans and Military Families Caucus of the Democratic Party of Virginia.

Canvassing is at the heart of Fabia’s commitment to the democratic process. Knocking on doors, talking to people about why their vote matters and getting them to think about their vote – those are the stories that she comes back to time and again. It’s what animates Fabia when she talks about her role among Virginia Democrats. Perhaps it was her work at Veterans Affairs, where she navigated among Republicans and Democrats to develop legislation, that prepared her to negotiate the conversations she has when canvassing. Whatever the source of her skill, it is why she is the person campaigns look to for training new volunteers.

Every Vote Counts

One of the first times that Fabia volunteered to canvass in Virginia was in the mid-aughts – either 2006 or ‘07, she’s not sure. At the time, she was volunteering with the Alexandria Democrats when she was given a packet to knock on doors in the lower income Black community on the edge of Old Town. The general response that she remembers from all the doors she knocked on was, “I can’t believe you’re knocking on our door. Nobody ever knocks on our door and cares what we say, what our opinion is.”

Fabia recalls her reply with just a touch of indignation in her voice. It carried a message that said, “You’re a voter. Why wouldn’t I knock on your door? You have as much influence as a guy who has a million dollar mansion, and you should act like you have as much influence as him. Everyone has one vote.”

Those frequent encounters in Old Town “really touched me”, she says today.

Breaking Through the Frustration

Another story Fabia likes to tell: She recently knocked on a door answered by a woman who told her she wasn’t voting, that both parties were the same, and she was angry at the whole system because her family was struggling financially. Fabia gently invited her to have a conversation, asking her what particular issue was on her mind.

The woman said, “Taxes. Our taxes are going to things we don’t need. We don’t even know we’re going to be able to afford our house.”

Fabia learned that the woman was a daycare worker and expressed her own frustration that the people who care for our children are so undervalued. Suspecting the woman was an immigrant, she asked if this was so. When the woman confirmed that she was, Fabia explained that her own parents were also immigrants and when they arrived in America, they had just one wish – that their children would have the opportunity to succeed.

“I think that’s the same thing that you want for your children”, Fabia said, “and that means getting a quality education. That’s what Democrats value – quality of education and affordability and a minimum wage so that everyone can succeed.”

The woman quietly mumbled, “Yeah.”

Fabia continued, “So I have to disagree with you when you say that both parties are the same. One doesn’t respect what you look like. When they look at you, they see a woman, an immigrant, and a minority. I’m a woman and a minority and the daughter of immigrants. And I’m volunteering for the Democratic Party and for this candidate.”

And the woman said, “You’re absolutely right.”

Fabia’s point: They never talked about taxes. Instead, she connected with the person and what she wants for herself and her family, the same kind of aspirations that drive Fabia and so many others to participate in the democratic process.

Taking the time to talk

Fabia understands how bad information gets lodged in people’s minds. And she’s adept at rooting it out. It just means knowing when someone is willing to be open-minded enough to have a genuine exchange of ideas.

“You can’t have a conversation with somebody who lies”, she says.

She then told the story of the guy in Loudoun County who spotted her and other canvassers in the neighborhood while mowing his lawn. He paused his yardwork and approached, sticking his finger in her face and telling her he wanted to talk with her. He correctly understood her to be the lead canvasser.

Unfazed by his aggressive posture, the 5’1” Fabia asked what he wanted to talk about. They ended up having a conversation that in Fabia’s telling, went something like this:

Lawnmower man: “CRT. But don’t think I’m a racist. I’m married to a Korean American.”

Fabia, who describes herself as Asian American: “Ok, I’m married to a Caucasian American, so I guess I’m not racist either.”

Lawnmower man: “That’s right.”

Fabia: “So if you recognize that we’re all Americans, including your wife who wasn’t born here and me who was, then you understand that we all contribute to what this country is. And part of that is that we are a country that learns from our mistakes. That’s why it’s important to learn about slavery and about the Chinese who built the railroads and how shamefully they were treated.”

The conversation continued, during which Fabia compared those in this country who don’t want to teach about slavery with the far right in Germany who are downplaying the Holocaust and questioning whether the gas chambers were really used to kill people. He found that appalling, but then he diverted to another topic:

Lawnmower man: “What about Black Lives Matter? Don’t all lives matter?”

Fabia: “It depends on who you’re talking about. If a White guy with a badge shoots a Black man in the back, or keeps his knee on a Black man’s neck for nine minutes till he’s dead, or if three White vigilantes chase down a Black man who’s just out for a jog and shoot him dead, I hope you think those Black lives matter enough that you would denounce the killings and not condone them.”

Lawnmower man: “You’re right. Their lives do matter, and it’s horrible what happened to them.”

So Fabia ended up having a conversation on two topics that were important to the man.  In the end, Fabia recalls, he told her, “Everyone’s calling me a racist, and I just had to tell you I’m not a racist, and you took the time to talk to me. I never thought of things like you do but talking to you, it all makes more sense.”

Fabia laughed at the suggestion of being profiled for The American Leader. Not because she doesn’t understand the important role she has carved out in Virginia politics, but because she doesn’t like the spotlight. She prefers to stay in the background where, as she says, she can “make things happen or just quietly talk to somebody, and then it starts creating something positive.”

Why is Fabia ok with spending so much time in her “golden years” knocking on doors, talking to sometimes angry and disillusioned citizens, and supporting multiple campaigns?

“I worry that we’re going down a path that could take away everything that we enjoy in everyday life. There’s such a fear for my daughter. It’s her future, and I really care what world she lives in.”

Links to Groups Mentioned

Beyond Arlington: Organizes volunteers to help candidates across Virginia and the nation

We of Action Virginia: An Indivisible group and movement for change

31st Street Swing Left: A volunteer grassroots group, based in DC, MD, and VA, strategically supporting progressive candidates

Author: George Linzer
Contributing Editor: David Hawkings
Published: September 25, 2022

Disclosure: Rose Fabia is a friend of the author. They met when their children went to high school and played softball together. They are also friends on Facebook, where Linzer has watched Fabia’s presence grow as an activist committed to fair elections and getting people out to vote.

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Sources

Rose Fabia, interview with George Linzer, Aug 24, 2022
Follow up emails with Fabia

VA Dems Arlington, “It Takes a County”, https://arlingtondemocrats.org/it-takes-a-county/, accessed Sep 23, 2022

US Senate, “Military Construction and Veterans Affairs and Related Agencies Appropriations Act, 2007”, Congressional Record (Bound Edition), Volume 152 (2006), Part 17, pgs. 21857-21869, https://www.govinfo.gov/content/pkg/CRECB-2006-pt17/html/CRECB-2006-pt17-Pg21857.htm, accessed Sep 15, 2022

 

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